My Space Bubble at School

Making FriendsCommunity & Public PlacesAges 3-5Ages 6-8

10 pages

Learner profile
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Name
Ezra
Age
9
Communication level
High

Physical description

Dark brown shoulder length wavy hair (no fringe/bangs) medium brown eyes, brown skin tone. Skinny, medium height. Usually wears a hoodie. Sharp facial features

Interests

Robots, STEM, math science

Additional info

Child can be a bit impulsive, struggles with social boundaries. Highly verbal, advanced reader (reads at 4th-5th grade level)

About Your Social Story

Explanation

This story targets impulsivity and difficulty interpreting social cues by teaching concrete personal-space rules across school and playground contexts. It uses first-person scripting, brief dialogue, and clear cause–effect payoffs. The arc reinforces noticing cues, asking consent, and repairing quickly when mistakes occur. For this highly verbal 9-year-old, the comic-like pacing and specific language support generalization and self-monitoring.

Recommendations for parents

Practice the “arm’s-length bubble” game at home so the measurement feels natural. Use one consistent cue word, like “bubbles,” to prompt without lecturing. Praise exact behaviors you want repeated: “You stepped back and asked first—that was thoughtful.” Try brief role-plays before school or the park to prime the skills. If they misjudge space, keep feedback short and neutral, then spotlight the repair (“Nice fix—thanks for giving room.”). A small robot sticker on the hoodie can be a private reminder to check bubbles.

Definitions

Social Story
A short, personalized story that teaches what to do in specific situations using simple, positive language.
Replacement behavior
A helpful action taught to take the place of a challenging behavior, like waving instead of poking.
Priming
Practicing or previewing what will happen and what to do before the real situation occurs.
Differential reinforcement
Praising or rewarding the behaviors you want to see more, while giving less attention to the unhelpful ones.
Reading the room
Noticing people’s body language and faces to decide if it’s a good time to be close or interact.
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My body has a space bubble. Other people have bubbles too. When I respect bubbles, friends feel safe, and conversations go better.

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A bubble is about an arm’s length. At school, I check: Can I stretch my arm without touching? If not, I take a small step back.

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I read the room. Leaning away, crossed arms, headphones, or quiet faces mean 'not now.' I give space and try later.

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At our table, I ask, 'Is this a good spot?' If a classmate looks crowded, I slide my chair back and angle my body away a little.

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On the playground, my engine runs fast. I pause two seconds, then ask, 'High five or wave?' If they say 'wave,' I wave big and smile.

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During group work, I place my notebook between us, not on theirs. I ask, 'Can I sit here?' A nod or 'Sure' means yes.

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When I want attention, I don’t poke or grab. I wave, say their name, and wait. Most times they look up quickly.

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If someone flinches or says, 'Back up,' I step away and say, 'Thanks for telling me.' I fix it fast and the moment recovers.

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My bubble matters too. If someone is too close, I say, 'Please give me space.' I point to a spot and breathe easier.

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Using space smarts helps me connect. Teachers say, 'Thanks, Ezra.' Friends relax, and I feel confident, like a robot calibrated just right.

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